Wanting to lose fat, and failing at it, is one of the most frustrating experiences ever.
Check out the following seven fat loss problems I come across in my gym to find out what the difference is between my clients who lose weight and those that remain at plateaus. You’ll want to bookmark this to come back and reread no matter what fitness level you’re at.
Fat Loss Problem #1: YOUR PERSPECTIVE
Your mind is your number one ally when it comes to achieving your goals. However, until your mind has been programmed for success, it will do more to derail your efforts than to help you.
- Take a few moments each day to visualize yourself at your ideal weight (prefferably while you meditate). Imagine how it feels to look the way you’ve always wanted. Contrary to popular belief, meditation isn’t shutting the mind down, but for me, it’s all about having time to re-center with myself and what I truly want. Check out the Headspace app if you’re a beginner to meditating.
- Protect your mind from any negative self talk. If a negative thought comes to mind, immediately reject it by replacing it with three positive thoughts. It works.
- You want to be thin and fit, and yet you think of yourself as out-of-shape and fat. Re-program your mind to think of yourself as fit and attractive, and you will be well on your way toward achieving your goal. So, what am I saying here? Practice self love.
Fat Loss Problem #2: YOUR ANXIETY
Change makes most of us nervous – even if it is a change in the right direction. You may not be consciously aware of the fear you have of getting into shape- but it exists. Until you conquer this fear, your weight loss efforts will be blocked by self sabotage. Many of my clients are, and have been placing glass ceilings above themselves for years when it comes to weight loss, money, happiness, forgiveness and love.
Professional speaker and author, Tony Robbins, has outlined three specific beliefs that you must have in order to conquer your fear and instantly create a lasting change- I
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- Believe that something MUST change. You can’t be wishy-washy about it. You can’t be considering it. You can’t even be pretty sure about it. You’ve got to be rock solid.
- Believe that YOU must change it. You can’t pass the buck of responsibility and expect to lose weight. It’s on your shoulders. Other people will prove to be great assets in your journey, but in the end you are the one who is going to make it happen. You have to want this weight loss enough to make it your personal mission.
- Believe you CAN change it. You may have failed in the past, but that doesn’t matter. When you put your mind to it, you’re able to do amazing things. Do you believe that you are capable of losing weight? Once you own the belief that you can, you’ll be unstoppable.
Fat Loss Problem #3: YOUR EXCUSES
Your excuses for being out-of-shape are getting old. An excuse takes less immediate effort than an action, but in the long run the action taker always has the advantage. Don’t allow excuses to ruin your life any longer. To me, one of the worst things is a wasted life or one that never reached its fullest potential.
- Don’t skip out on your responsibilities with excuses, instead expect more from yourself.
- Focus on the big reason why you are losing the weight. Make a list of the benefits you’ll enjoy once you achieve your goal, and read them first thing each morning.
- Remember that you can only have two things in life: excuses or results. Which do you want?
Fat Loss Problem #4: YOUR ACCOUNTABILITY
How many times have you tried to lose weight, only to give up a week or two later? We live in a commitment-phobic world, so it’s no wonder that you routinely abandon your goals. If you truly want to lose weight then your commitment to the process is a must.
- The margin between success and failure is bridged by your commitment. Don’t give up until your goal has been achieved.
- Treat exercise with the same importance as a work meeting, and you’ll never skip it at the last minute. Find three available 60-minute time slots in your schedule and mark them (in pen) on your calendar. Now stick to your schedule.
- If you don’t give up, then you’ll never fail.
Fat Loss Problem #5: YOUR FOOD
If you consistently eat the wrong food, then you’re weight loss efforts will all be in vain.
To put it bluntly, you need to stop eating junk. Processed foods, refined sugar and high fructose corn syrup do not belong in your diet if you want to be in great shape. Cut these items out of your diet and replace them with real whole foods like lean meats, vegetables, whole grains, nuts and fruits.
- Limit processed foods to 10% of your weekly food intake. Even though processed foods are accepted by our society, they contain tons of chemicals and empty calories that will make you sick and fat.
- Fat contains twice the caloric density of protein and carbohydrates, so make sure to limit the amount that you consume. Eat lots of lean proteins and wholesome carbohydrates from plants and whole grains.
- Vegetables, whole grains, fruits, nuts and seeds are filled with fiber and antioxidants which are vital for healthy weight loss. Snack on these instead of packaged treats.
- One of the best things I’ve ever asked clients to do to get back on track was to embark on a 30 day no sweets challenge. It’s always them vs them and they ALWAYS see results and begin to rewire their brain, their addiction to sweets and their every day habits.
Fat Loss Problem #6: Your Patience
It takes time to transform your body from fat to fit, even though you want it to happen overnight. Remind yourself that it took time to put the weight on, so it will take time to take the weight off. When you find your patience wavering, or when you encounter a frustrating plateau, do the following:
- Review your goal. Is it specific and measurable? Is it small and attainable, rather than monumental? Focus on your goal when the going gets tough.
- Make each workout a new experience. Challenge your body with different resistance, new exercises and a varied pace.
- Remember that anyone can have one great workout, but that won’t get you the body you want. The only way to achieve your goal is by consistently exercising and eating right, plain and simple.
Fat Loss Problem #7: YOUR SUPPORT
People who exercise alone are less challenged, less accountable and are more likely to fail. It makes sense. Who would rush to the gym if no one is was waiting for them? Who would push themselves if no one was paying attention? Exercising alone is a recipe for disaster.
- Find a workout partner who is in better shape than you, or better yet, work with me, your local fitness expert, to guarantee your results.
- I’m passionate about seeing you achieve results—don’t waste your time, energy and effort on mistakes that talking to me could help you bypass and get faster results.
- When you start a program with me, you suddenly have the upper hand on weight loss. I’ll be in your corner, coaching you each step of the way, keeping you accountable to workouts and giving you that dose of encouragement when you need it most.
Get serious about your results and begin the last weight loss program that you’ll ever do.
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